A guy at my Only Fans asked me, “when it comes to sex….. so what do you really like, drives you crazy, makes you really horny….” I gave him a short answer but thought I might dive a little more into it on here as my approach to sex and especially the people I will meet has definitely been re-defined lately.
The reason I didn’t want to answer him on Only Fans with a quick response is because narrowing what turns me on to a short or quick response goes against the main characteristic that turns me on by someone. Their willingness to be open minded and responsive. These things require that person to be comfortable and confident in themselves and their fetish’s as well as being aware and in tune to the person they are fucking.
I would rather fuck with another TOP who responded to me than a BOTTOM who only had his own agenda. And two TOPS can have an awesome fuck if they are receptive of each other’s sexual preference and connect on any or all other animalistic sexual activities.
So I guess the answer to what drives me crazy is attitude and chemistry on a psychological level. Then on a physical level there are some things that have always been a massive turn on to me and that are still, milky white skin that is the opposite to mine, an athletic or muscular build. Large ears. Imperfect teeth. Thick legs or belly. Chunky nipples and tits. Thick bush or pit hair. These things are not a must but if you present me with them it will wake up the savage sex-carved beast inside me. The difference between the two things I just mentioned is if we have a mental connection we can fuck for ages. If we only have the physical connection I will get bored after a while. If we have a combination of both we will fuck forever!
I have been noticing so many guys approach sex with a narrow mind and a list of set ideas or actions they think they have to do and never stray from. Like a list of, to dos and don’ts, that they can never alternate from. Don’t get me started on the misconceptions of what a DOM is! Or the insane idea that hot piggy sex means more people when it only ends up a shit show. I will address this in another post later on…
I have always tried to show you what real sex is or what real sex is to me through the films I make. To take you through an exploration of fetish and kinks and experience these things through me. I can never stand still or do the same old shit. I have to be constantly developing and growing and opening myself up as a sexually active man. I am now at the point where besides having this insane obsession with finding the perfect balance of art and sex in my films I also am determined to educate and show you how to open your minds and never get stuck placing your sex in cage. I mean there is a place and time for physical cages of course, but I’m talking about your mind! Never cage your mind!
It is so strange that I have been doing this for so long yet I constantly think I am just beginning…
