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Aug 19
Love1

FedEx are TERRIBLE! READ THIS – its unbelievable.

By ASK ROGAN No Comments

In May of this year I hired FedEx to ship a container of my personal belongings from the London to my new home in Madrid. It was emotional to me as it represented the last element in my relocation from Australia to Spain. The container had many un-replaceable possessions. 

Below is a detailed account of my interaction with the company that starts of normal and quickly becomes unbelievable!

Friday 16th May. 12.31pm. Email.

I replied to the email with my responses.

Same day. 14.57pm. Email.

 

 

Same day. 2.58pm. Text message.

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Translated it says, “Your FedEx shipment will be delivered on May 26.” My container was not delivered to me.

Thursday 22nd May. 13.40. – They re-sent the email I received on Friday 16th May 12.31pm.

They proceeded to re-send the same email on the 16th, 22nd, 23rd, and 28th May.

I responded with the information every time.

Thursday 22nd May. 12.59pm. Email.

Monday 2nd June. 13.35pm. Email.

Same day. 14.29pm. Email.

Thursday 5th June. 7.23am. Email.

Friday 6th June. 11.07am. Email.

Same day. 15.09pm. Email.

Monday 9th June. 11.09am. Email.

Wednesday 11th June. 10.29am. Email. ITS LOST?!?

Between 11th June and the 29th July I was on the phone to FedEx UK and Spain trying to figure out how my container that I had been getting so many emails about has suddenly vanished? Not only that but that I would consistently get an email stating my case is closed! SO I would call them up the next day saying my container is missing so my case isn’t closed and they would re-open my case only to have this stupid cycle repeat itself every week.

Thursday 19th June. 7.14am Email.

I was advised by a FedEx customer support agent that the best thing for me to do was make a claim at the FedEx website. I didn’t want to do this as many of the items in my container were priceless and un-replaceable. But it seemed I had no other option. I called customer support again to make the claim and I was told I can’t make a claim because my container wasn’t missing.

WTF?!?

Wednesday 25th June. 15.49pm. Email.

Friday 27th June. 15.49pm. Email.

 

Tuesday 1st July. 11.04am. Email.

Wednesday 9th July. 7.34am. Email.

I called FedEx Spain and said I don’t want to make a claim because of the reasons I spoke of above. I said I want someone to go collect my container when the person who has it returns from holidays. Customer support said it is in FedEx’s best interest to recover my container and that they will send someone.

No one got in contact with me. After the 14th July I called them again and asked for an update. I was told again to make a claim but I said my container isn’t missing, you know where it is and have been in contact with the person it was sent too. As shown when you told me they informed you they were on holiday’s till the 14th July. I said I would like make a police report as my container has been stolen. I need to speak to someone who can give me more detailed information so I can proceed. They said they would transfer me and hung up on me.

I called FedEx UK and explained my situation and that Spain FedEx hung up on me and that I hope they wouldn’t, and can they help me? I will state now the UK FedEx customer service always sounded like they were genuinely concerned and wanted to help. The Spain FedEx customer support couldn’t give two fucks. I was told I would have someone contact me…

Tuesday 29th July. 12.25am. Email. FedEx wipe their hands of any responsibility of the missing container.

I contact Parcel Hero and explain everything I have been through with FedEx who all of a sudden claim it no longer has anything to do with them and that Parcel Hero is responsible. I ask how do we proceed?

Tuesday 5th August. 9.00am. Email.

Friday 8th August. 10.00am. Email.

The items in my container were collectables, presents and years old items that I have no receipts for. In any case they were trying to make me make a claim again and I responded saying I want to make a police report as my container is not lost.

At the time of posting this the last email I received was on the Friday15th August. 9.14am.

 

 

Jul 18
Love7

FLEX UPDATE to fill you in on my behaviour of late.

By ASK ROGAN 4 Comments

Last year I mentally and emotionally hit rock bottom. My depression took over, the first time since I was a teenager. Depression can affect people in many different ways. To explain what it does to me, it immobilises my motivation and drive. For anything. I don’t want to die, but I can’t bring myself to live. I started meds last year for both depression and ADHD – which I had been very dangerously self medicating myself on meth to function. With massive help from my mum and my boy friend, @alexander_interrupted I managed to bring myself back to the daily grind of life and get my visa for Spain and my first home in 9 years.

Unfortunately this year has been really tough to find peace and allow myself to enjoy it. The relocation was not easy and is still dragging on. My depression, though not as intense keeps coming and going in patches. And I have accumulated a series of fucked up events that makes it hard to be optimistic. Then I go get a fkin puppy, who is fkin amazing! And the best dog ever! But realistically bad timing.

So if I haven’t responded to your DM, it’s because I haven’t opened them in months. I don’t remember what a sex app looks like? And I have not been keeping up with content on any of my platforms. I’m lucky if I get to the gym once a week! Aleluya for muscle memory! I think it’ll take the rest of this year for me to sort all the shit out but I am going to try and be present, post, create, occasionally still fuck! I’m gonna give the meds a real chance to do what they’re supposed to. And as they say there’s no such thing as a functional user, I am attempting to make decisions that keep me sober.

And I’m going to learn Spanish! anyone know a school or tutor that specialises in special needs students? Seriously, if Pumkin can get Caroline I can get this language.

Jan 28
Love2

TAKE TWO! FLEX UPDATE!

By ASK ROGAN No Comments

I am well versed in the mantra, if you fall (or fail) pick yourself up and try again! I recently posted a Flex Update and didn’t realise the file was corrupted. I also was being cheeky and edited it the way my mind works. Like a dog walker being enthusiastically pulled a dozen different directions at the same time! SO here it is, a little less chaotic and hopefully less corrupted.

Nov 23
Love2

POZ is no longer a NEG word.

By ASK ROGAN, XXX 2 Comments

Firstly.. The Disclaimer.

This post may be topic sensitive to a certain demographic of gays who are older and had to go through the horrific AIDS epidemic. PLEASE know that in no way would I ever be-little that important history or what you guys had to endure. I mean absolutely no dis-respect or am I making light any of our history. Like other aspects of gay fetish culture such as SPH (Small Penis Humiliation) which I do have a lot of experience with growing up, I now accept its place in modern gay role play and have turned a negative into a positive (Pun intended.)

The Fetish.

BBUG CHASING is a fetish of intentionally seeking to be infected with HIV by getting it fucked into you by a POZed cock. It can also be used for the similar act of seeking out STIS.

I am not talking about STEALTHING, in which a POZ man actively tries to infect a negative man with HIV, without the latter’s knowledge or consent. This usually is done by the non-consensual removal of a condom during sex. Or can be by the GIVER choosing not inform his partner of his sexual status. Some guys just get off on slipping the condom off, or breaking it, during sex without telling their partner. This can also be called a type of stealthing. I am not turned on by this or have absolutely any interest in it.

The first real experience I had of bug chasing was when I was age a job fucking this guy who asked me to tell him I wanted to POZ him. As I always do, I took him literally and replied, “Um, but I’m not positive.” He said role play it with me…

Now when it comes to role play, I have to admit role plays don’t actually turn me on. I also find it hard to step into a role play if I can’t relate it to me or fully take on that fictional mind set. Call me more of a method fucker.

…so when this guy said role play POZing him I had to pause and try and think, how do I do this? The guy may have noticed this and pointed me on the general direction. I can’t remember what he actually said but it would have been something along the lines of, “I want your toxic seed to infect me so I know I totally belong to you.” BAM! I could def relate to owning this sub not only with my cock and load but with my toxic load that would stain him for life and make him belong to me! My cock was rock hard and off I went!

Fantasy Vs Reality.

I remember bringing it into sex with a sex partner who also got turned on by it. And then proceeded to use it any time he wanted to try and make me blow quicker. One day he called me and said he was going to hook up with a guy who was actually detectable and wanted to POZ him, and asked my permission. We had a Alpha -Sub/ Daddy – Boy relationship. Suddenly fantasy became a very stark reality and I found myself surprisingly nervous. For some reason allowing my boy to go and get (possibly) POZed by another guy didn’t feel right. I ended up settling on it being my FOMO and ALPHA characteristics. For example I would feel fine if we went together or was orchestrating the meet or if I was the one who was doing the POZing. In the end the guy couldn’t meet and that was that. But that day I discovered that bug chasing was a fantasy for me not a reality.

I have had many lovers and sexual partners that are POZ and undetectable. I have no doubt fucked guys that were detectable. I do not treat these men any differently than I would someone negative. If anything, the perverted mind in me may think the sex may be better with a POZ guy cause he may be more adventurous and piggy. POZ talk is a regular role-play or fantasy dialogue that turns me on and I practice with other guys who are also turned on by it. We mean no disrespect to anyone and are not promoting the actual act of bug chasing but the freedom of sexual fantasy and expression in a taboo topic that gets us off. Let’s face it if it wasn’t taboo, or considered, “naughty” or “dirty” would we still be turned on by it?

Where the line lays between it being fantasy and reality is completely up to you to discover…

We threw in the POZ talk right at the end, and it did what it always tends to do. Watch the film Daddy’s Faggot part two, now at my XXX page. The reason I felt inspired to write this post is because so many guys have messaged me saying how hot (brief) section was in the film or that they blew to it heaps of times! This made me aware that it was noticed and it was popular and like any fetish that may not be regular I always like to start an open conversation about it with my followers and educate the as best I can.

Just remember educate yourself on the sex acts or fetish’s you wish to explore, the pros and cons, dangers and solutions, and always communicate with your partners. Never feel ashamed to talk or ask or do. Within fundamental human respect and practice for yourself and your partner. And maybe try not to break the law while you’re at it.    

Oct 16
Love0

THERE IS NO SHAME IN GETTING AN STI.

By ASK ROGAN No Comments

Recently I was approached by a guy who wanted to ask me questions about sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and infections (STIs) within the context of creating adult content, but this can be applied to anyone’s everyday lifestyle so I thought I would share this conversation with you pigs.

1.How do you feel about STD/Sti’s?

I’m not fazed by getting an STI. I am not a bug chaser* but I understand that the chances of contracting one is high due to the sexual activity I want to practice and the frequency that I do so. Educate yourself about what is out there, how to recognise the symptoms and how to get treatment. It’s also important to communicate your sexual status, and to inform people you were in contact with if you have contracted something.

*Bug chser (alternatively bug chasing) is the rare practice of intentionally seeking human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) infection, or an STI, through sexual activity.

2.Do you see any value in anonymous sex?

I did not understand the sub text he meant with this question, but if he was referring to having sex with partners who I do not know, I mean that is 80% of my sexual encounters and I am fine with that. If he was asking, is it something I seek out – sure, I am totally into using a “beat” or “sauna” or “sex session” to go and have anonymous sex with one or many people. As far as hook ups or fuck buddy’s go, if I find someone who I have kick-ass awesome sex with I will always chose that over needing something new.

4. Would you keep working if you contracted a std/sti?

No, I get treated then go back to work. I have on the odd occasions called clients that I know a bug chasers, though the timing has never allowed that to happen. I don’t feel comfortable knowing I have something and not treating it straight away.

5. Do you find others in the industry more open about the topic or their status? Or is it circumstantial?

In general sex workers, weather escorts or porn filmers are more accustomed and relaxed about STI’s. It really comes down to the individual and it still amazes me how ignorant and uneducated some people are. Anyone who shames another person for contracting an STI is a moron. Especially if that person has done the correct thing and contacted them to let them know. That person is more likely to spreads shit cause they have an irrational hang up about the situation and fear communication.